A lady refrains from asking uncomfortable questions...such as
"Have you lost/gained weight?"
"Is it real?" (gold/diamond/designer goods etc)
"How much did it cost?"
"What grade/specs is your diamond?"
"What happened to your face?"
"What is that on your face?" (usually a very big pimple or a rash)
"You don't remember me do you?"
"Is that your boyfriend?"
"When is it your turn?" (to get married, have a child etc)
"Why did you get retrenched? What happened to your old job?"
If you really have to ask, please try to be indirect or be sensitive that your friend might be uncomfortable or really does not want to talk about it.
And please do not use the age-old disclaimer, "I don't mean to intrude," or "I hope you don't mind me asking..."
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